Private • Trauma-informed • Evidence-aware

Remember How it Felt

Every mother deserves somewhere to process what she’s feeling.

Yes, I need this support

Welcome to DearMe

Private, trauma-informed support for new and expectant mothers—designed by mums and mental health experts, for the real postpartum experience.

Motherhood brings more noise, but less space to process.

You have so much to process in motherhood, but rarely enough uninterrupted time.

Your emotions build up, but there's little time to pause and reflect.

You don't need another app that asks you to keep up. Just somewhere you can come back to when you're ready.

You want to capture the moments of motherhood, but a paper journal doesn't always fit real life.

Your thoughts are interrupted before you have space to make sense of them.

You want a private space to journal and reflect, without pressure or performance.

You have so much to process in motherhood, but rarely enough uninterrupted time.

Your emotions build up, but there's little time to pause and reflect.

You don't need another app that asks you to keep up. Just somewhere you can come back to when you're ready.

You want to capture the moments of motherhood, but a paper journal doesn't always fit real life.

Your thoughts are interrupted before you have space to make sense of them.

You want a private space to journal and reflect, without pressure or performance.

Why DearMe Exists

Motherhood is intimate. Joyful and raw. Lonely and full.

But the transition into motherhood can be overwhelming. It brings a swirl of emotions that don't fit neatly into the highlight reel. We created DearMe to offer a calm, private space to help you slow down, tune in and make sense of what's really going on—on your terms. This isn't about fixing you. It's about feeling more like yourself, even in the in-between.

How it works

Capture your experience, your way.

Use voice, text, photos and tags to capture what matters, then come back to it whenever you’re ready.

Start Journaling

Express Freely

Start a voice note, text, photo or video reflection in seconds — even with one hand free. DearMe meets mothers in real life, not ideal conditions.

Tag & Reflect

Tag entries by mood or theme, then revisit them over time to notice patterns, triggers and changes.

Speak freely

Record voice notes when your hands are full or writing feels like too much.

About the Founder

Founder Story

Hi, I'm Deborah, founder of DearMe and mum to a little girl who flipped my world upside down (and made it better in the messiest way).

When she was born, everything changed—sleep, identity, safety, certainty. I wanted to capture memories and journal to make sense of it all, but motherhood wasn't stillness. It was chaos stitched together with love. I always had my phone in my hand, but a paper diary didn't stand a chance.

So I started using voice notes, scribbles in my phone, and screenshots of moments I didn't want to forget. I discovered a need for a journaling app that could help mothers like me navigate through the postpartum chaos. And slowly, the idea for DearMe took shape—a space mothers could turn to for small moments of grounding, honesty, and emotional clarity.

FAQ

What is DearMe?

DearMe is a private, trauma-informed space designed to support mothers as they process what they’re feeling and navigate the emotional realities of motherhood.

Who is DearMe for?

DearMe is designed for new and expectant mothers who want a private space to pause, reflect and process their emotions.

How does DearMe support mothers?

DearMe offers a space to reflect on the feelings and experiences that can be difficult to say out loud, with an approach that is private, trauma-informed and evidence-aware.

Is DearMe private?

Yes. Privacy is at the heart of DearMe. It is designed to give mothers a personal space to process their thoughts and feelings without pressure or performance.

Who is DearMe designed by?

DearMe is designed by mums and mental health experts, with the real experiences and emotional needs of motherhood in mind.